Coaching / 9-month program guide
The Matriarchal Coaching Program. Nine months of unlearning, reflection, and shared practice for young adults ages 18–30.
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You are here because something in you knows that the world as it is does not have to be the world as it will be. You are here because you are willing to look at patriarchy and white supremacy — not just out there, but inside yourself — and to build something else from the ground up.
This program is a journey through nine modules. It moves from the self, to systems, to the body, to money, to gender, to rest, and finally to integration. Along the way, you will read, reflect, question, rage, rest, and build.
This is not therapy. It is coaching. It is not a lecture. It is a circle. And it is not a solo journey. You will move through it with a cohort of women who are doing the same work.
Here is what we will do together.
Module 1
Who are you, really — beneath the conditioning?
We begin with you. Not the you that performs, not the you that pleases, not the you that has learned to be small. The you underneath.
Module 2
Where did your ideas about womanhood come from?
Now we zoom out. Before we can build matriarchy, we have to understand what we are up against — and how deeply it has shaped us.
Module 3
Whose stories have been told — and whose have been buried?
Patriarchy and white supremacy do not only harm women as a category. They divide us. This module is about the histories we were not taught and the women we were taught not to see.
Module 4
Your body is not a problem to be solved. It is a source of knowledge.
The patriarchy has treated women's bodies as public property, as mystery, as malfunction. This module reclaims the body as sacred ground — a place of knowing, rhythm, and power.
Module 5
Money is not neutral. Neither is your labor.
We cannot build matriarchy without understanding the economic systems we live inside — and the ways our labor, paid and unpaid, has been extracted for generations.
Module 6
What does manhood cost — and who pays?
You cannot understand patriarchy without understanding masculinity. This module examines how manhood is constructed, enforced, and weaponized — and what it costs everyone.
Module 7
How womanhood is scripted — and how we rewrite it.
This module examines the scripts that have been written for women — and the many ways women have resisted, refused, and rewritten them.
Module 8
Rest is not a reward. It is resistance.
This is a pause point. Before we move into integration, we stop to catch our breath, honor what we have learned, and reorient toward what comes next.
Module 9
You came here with questions. You leave with a blueprint.
This is where we gather everything.
Over the past months, you have studied patriarchy and white supremacy. You have traced their roots through history, through systems, through your own body, through your family, through your money, through your rest. You have named your anger. You have learned what matriarchy means — not as an abstract idea, but as a way of living: power with, not power over.
Now we ask the question that matters most: What will you build with what you know?
This module is not an ending. It is a threshold.
Look back at your workbook, your notes, your goals from Module 1:
Walk through the Sacred Pillars — Intersectionality, Matriarchy-Centered, Anti-Racist, Anonymous & Sacred, Inviolable, and LGBTQ+ Affirming — and honestly assess:
Refine the mutual aid community engagement project you identified in Module 5:
Write a personal statement that begins:
Keep this. Return to it when you are tired, angry, or discouraged. It is yours.
Continuation
Completing this program does not mean the work ends. It means you choose what comes next.
For those who want to keep going one-on-one, I offer monthly coaching sessions. This is a space to bring your questions, your struggles, your wins, your next steps. You set the agenda. I hold the container. Available to every graduate — you choose whether it is right for you.
Stay connected with alumni. You do not have to build alone.
If you feel called to facilitate or co-facilitate circles, there will be opportunities to step into that role — with preparation and support.
If you want therapy, mentorship, or deeper involvement with organizations doing this work, I will help connect you. Coaching is not therapy, and I will always be honest about what I can and cannot offer.
A Closing Word
You came in with a question about who you are. You are leaving with a practice.
The patriarchy and white supremacy want you to believe that your anger is dangerous, your body is public property, your labor is infinite, and your rest is earned. You now know better. You know that your anger is sacred fuel. You know that your body is yours. You know that your labor has value. You know that rest is resistance.
And you know that you are not meant to carry this alone.
Matriarchy is not a solo project. It is a web. You are now part of it — not as a student forever, but as a builder.
I will be here if you want to keep going. And I will be proud of you either way.
Welcome to the work.
Community option: Participants may opt into an ongoing peer community, governed by the behavior covenant in the safeguarding protocol.
